Does your cat secretly adore you most? While cats have a reputation for being independent and aloof, they form bonds and express affection in unique and sometimes subtle ways.
Studies find that early socialization shapes these bonds, as kittens with positive experiences are more likely to show affection and trust towards their human companions.1
If you’re lucky enough to be your cat’s chosen one, you’ll notice these adorable behaviors that reveal their unwavering love and devotion.
1. Slow Blink Kiss
When your cat looks at you, slowly closes their eyes, and then opens them again, they are sending you a “kitty kiss”. This is a sign of deep trust and affection, as cats only show this vulnerable behavior to those they feel safe with.
2. Bunting (Head Butting)
If your cat rubs their head against you, it means they’re marking you with their scent glands. This is their way of claiming you as their own and showing you’re part of their family.
It’s also a way to show affection and say hello.
3. Kneading (Making Biscuits)
This is a behavior that stems from kittenhood, when they knead their mother to stimulate milk flow. Adult cats continue this behavior with their favorite humans as a sign of contentment, love, and a desire to bond.
4. Bringing You “Gifts”
While a dead mouse on your doorstep may not be your ideal present, it’s your cat’s way of showing you they care and want to share their hunting prowess with you. This behavior is deeply rooted in their instincts and is a sign of their love and trust.
5. Sleeping On or Near You
Cats are vulnerable when they sleep, so choosing to sleep on or near you is a sign of ultimate trust and comfort. It means they feel safe and secure in your presence and consider you their protector and confidant.
6. Following You Around
If your cat seems to be your constant shadow, weaving between your legs or perching nearby as you work, it’s not just because they’re curious. This behavior shows they enjoy your company and want to be involved in your activities.
It’s a testament to the bond you share.
7. Chattering/Chirping
Cats make this unique vocalization when they’re excited, usually when observing birds or prey through a window. If they direct this chatter towards you, it means they’re sharing their excitement and joy with you, their most trusted companion.
8. Exposing Their Belly
A cat’s belly is their most vulnerable spot. If they roll over and show it to you, it’s the ultimate sign of trust and affection. They’re inviting you into their personal space and saying they feel safe and loved in your presence.
9. Grooming You (Licking)
Cats groom each other to show affection and strengthen bonds. When they lick you, it’s their way of including you in their family and showing they care about your well-being. It’s a gesture of love and companionship.
10. Purring Constantly
While purring can have different meanings, a cat who purrs deeply and vibrates their body against you is expressing pure contentment and happiness. They associate you with positive feelings and want to share their joy with you.
It’s a heartwarming display of affection.
Source:
Read Next:
Davin is a jack-of-all-trades but has professional training and experience in various home and garden subjects. He leans on other experts when needed and edits and fact-checks all articles.