Boil & Reserve: Boil your pasta in salted water until al dente.
Crucial Step: Before draining, scoop out 1 full cup of cloudy, starchy pasta water. You will need this for the sauce. Drain the pasta but do not rinse it.
The "Flavor Base" (Optional but Recommended): While pasta boils, melt the butter in your skillet over medium heat. Sauté the garlic cloves for 1-2 minutes until golden (don't burn them). Transfer the garlic and butter into the blender.
Quick Version: Skip this and just add raw garlic/powder to the blender, but the sautéed butter adds that "restaurant" richness.
Blend & Temper: In the blender, combine the Cottage Cheese, Parmesan, Milk, Cornstarch, Lemon Juice, Nutmeg, and the sautéed garlic butter.
The Trick: Add roughly ¼ cup of the hot pasta water to the blender.
Blend: Blitz on HIGH for 60 seconds. Do not stop until it is completely smooth and glossy. If it's too thick, add a splash more pasta water.
The Toss (Heat Management): Return your drained (hot) pasta to the empty skillet (off the heat!). Pour the blender sauce over the hot pasta. Use tongs to toss vigorously.
Why off heat? The residual heat of the pasta is enough to warm the sauce without curdling the cottage cheese proteins. If you need more heat, turn the stove on Low just to warm it through.
Adjust Consistency: If the sauce is too thick (gluelike), drizzle in more reserved pasta water 1 tablespoon at a time while tossing until it creates a creamy emulsion.
Serve: Top with cracked black pepper, extra parmesan, and fresh parsley. Serve immediately!